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Henry Cloud – THE POWER OF THE OTHER : The Startling Effect Other People Have On You, From The Boardroom To The Bedroom And Beyond – And What To Do About It

THE POWER OF THE OTHER : The Startling Effect Other People Have On You, From The Boardroom To The Bedroom And Beyond – And What To Do About It

Dr Henry Cloud


Examines The Ways In Which Our Relationships And Connections With Others Influence Our Performance, Decision-Making, And Overall Well-Being

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ISBN 9780061777141
Book Condition LIKE NEW
Publisher Harper Business
Publication Date 03 May 2016
Pages 256
Weight 0.48 kg
Dimension 23.5 × 16 × 2.5 cm
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An expert on the psychology of leadership and the bestselling author of Integrity, Necessary Endings, and Boundaries For Leaders identifies the critical ingredient for personal and professional wellbeing. This book explores the idea that the people we interact with have a significant impact on our lives and our ability to succeed in various areas, including business, relationships, and personal development.
Most leadership coaching focuses on helping leaders build their skills and knowledge and close performance gaps. These are necessary, but not sufficient. Using evidence from neuroscience and his work with leaders, Dr. Cloud shows that the best performers draw on another vital resource: personal and professional relationships that fuel growth and help them surpass current limits.
In here, Dr. Cloud examines the ways in which our relationships and connections with others influence our performance, decision-making, and overall well-being. He argues that the quality of the relationships we have with family members, friends, colleagues, mentors, and even acquaintances can either empower us to achieve our goals or hinder our progress.

Popular wisdom suggests that we should not allow others to have power over us, but the reality is that they do, for better or for worse. Consider the boss who diminishes you through cutting remarks versus one who challenges you to get better. Or the colleague who always seeks the limelight versus the one who gives you the confidence to finish a difficult project. Or the spouse who is honest and supportive versus the one who resents your success. No matter how talented, intelligent, or experienced, the greatest leaders share one commonality: the power of the others in their lives.
Key themes and concepts explored in the book include:
● 1. The Impact of Relationships: Dr. Cloud emphasizes that the quality of our relationships can shape our self-perception, motivation, and ability to overcome challenges.
● 2. Different Types of “Others”: The book discusses the roles played by various people in our lives, such as supporters, critics, and mentors, and how these roles affect us.
● 3. Healthy Boundaries: Dr. Cloud provides guidance on setting and maintaining healthy boundaries in relationships to ensure they are supportive rather than detrimental.
● 4. Accountability: The book highlights the importance of being accountable to others and accepting constructive feedback to foster personal and professional growth.
● 5. The Role of Leadership: Dr. Cloud also delves into the ways in which leaders can create environments that empower and bring out the best in their teams.
Combining engaging case studies, persuasive findings from cutting-edge brain research, and examples from his consulting practice, Dr. Cloud argues that whether you’re a Navy SEAL or a corporate executive, outstanding performance depends on having the right kind of connections to fuel personal growth and minimize toxic associations and their effects.
Dr Cloud also provides practical advice on how to build and maintain healthy relationships. He emphasizes the importance of finding people who support us, challenge us, and help us grow. He also discusses how to deal with difficult relationships in a healthy way.
Presenting a dynamic model of the impact these different kinds of connections produce, Dr. Cloud shows readers how to get more from themselves by drawing on the strength and expertise of others. You don’t have a choice whether or not others have power in your life, but you can choose what kinds of relationships you want.
Here are some specific examples of the power of other people in different areas of our lives:

◆ At work: Our relationships with our boss, colleagues, and customers can all have a big impact on our job satisfaction, performance, and career success. For example, a supportive boss can help us to develop our skills and reach our full potential, while a toxic boss can make us feel stressed and undervalued.

◆ In our personal lives: Our relationships with our family and friends can also have a significant impact on our happiness and well-being. For example, a loving and supportive spouse or partner can provide us with emotional support and encouragement, while a critical or demanding spouse or partner can make us feel insecure and unhappy.

◆ In our health: Our relationships with others can even affect our physical health. For example, studies have shown that people who have strong social connections are more likely to live longer and healthier lives than those who are socially isolated.
Overall, the power of other people in our lives is undeniable. We all need supportive and positive relationships in order to thrive. If you are not satisfied with your current relationships, there are steps you can take to improve them. Start by identifying the people who are most important to you and nurturing those relationships. This book encourages readers to be mindful of the people they surround themselves with and the impact those individuals can have on their lives. It offers practical advice on how to build and nurture positive, supportive relationships and provides insights into how these connections can contribute to personal and professional success.
About the Author :
Dr. Henry Cloud is an acclaimed leadership expert, psychologist, and New York Times bestselling author whose books have sold over 10 million copies. In 2014, Success magazine named Dr. Cloud one of the top 25 most influential leaders in personal growth and development. He graduated from Southern Methodist University with a BS in psychology and completed his PhD in clinical psychology at Biola University.

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